how do I make my fiance show me she loves me even though sh might be under stress from school and work?
We just moved to her hometown about 800 miles from anyone I know. Things have really been stressful lately because she is more focused on school and work right now. In the past 6 weeks she really hasn’t paid that much attention to me and its been really hard on me, I have been seeing a counselor for depression but she still isn’t very cognitive of my feelings, any suggestions?
Every day I come home and I clean and I give her back massages and foot massages and god I just love her so much. I put her happiness above all, but the thing is that it makes her feel great and happy but she never returns the favor, she never thinks about how great I would feel if she tried to make me happy.
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July 20th, 2009 at 4:11 am
Um, the way you phrased your question is not too cool, bra–
the whole "make her show me she loves me", that totally is NOT cognitive of her feelings on your end. But I know where youre coming from.
Now that I chilled ya, this is what Munya would do: Sit down with her. DONT make her sit down if she’s running around busy, just make it when you both are relaxed and express your doubts in a non-attacking manner. Your counselor should be able to script something for you and even role-play with you.
Good luck, kiddo and kudos to you for seeking help with your depression, it sucks but it can get better.
July 20th, 2009 at 4:11 am
Tell her how you feel , that would be a good start .
July 20th, 2009 at 4:11 am
Yah! how about you quit being so damn selfish and have a little patience while she is studying and working. GROW UP!