Should lonely miserable people who have treatment resistant depression end their misery?
I was thinking suicide. I used to enjoy hiking in nature a lot but now I cant seem to enjoy it.
I have not had freinds or a gf for 7 years and people at my job are picking at me calling me gay slurs.
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February 5th, 2010 at 4:14 am
im in the same boat.. >_>
February 5th, 2010 at 4:14 am
By all means ! Go out, enjoy the nature, enjoy fresh air, end your misery !
February 5th, 2010 at 4:14 am
No! Don’t give up! Maybe the answer doesn’t lie in medication. Find some new friends, try something new and ridiculous you’ve always wanted to try. Make a "top 100" list of things to do and go do it! If you’re lonely, learn to entertain yourself without other people!
February 5th, 2010 at 4:14 am
when he says end his misery he isnt talking about doing something that makes him happy to end it. unless killing yourself makes you happy, cuz that is what he means, and really depression is all psychological and alot of peoplee go through it, mostly mild cases but you jus need to get to a better place in life to feel better. Now i dont mean literally find a better place to be i mean with yourself you need to find understanding within you. find out who you really are, because a depressed person isnt who you really are, it’s just a product of everyday life which changed the actual you to who you are right now.
February 5th, 2010 at 4:14 am
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February 5th, 2010 at 4:14 am
I agree with you Chris. Lonely and miserable self is not the real you. It is something you acquired at some point in your life’s journey. It is just a belief system. You change that belief system and you will not be feeling anymore.
February 5th, 2010 at 4:14 am
I don’t know how to help you because I’m considering the same thing almost every day.
I don’t know any painless methods though.