What to do on a sunday ALONE? help plz….and PICS added too.?
i am a 14 year old girl,from london.
i have no friends,zero,none and i mean it.
long story cut short i dont belobe in my school,because i dont carry a knife or act ''gangsta'' and i am not intending to do that just for friends,bcoz its silly.And the quiet kids copy the bullies and the ''gangsters''(their opinin,i think they're just losers for being in gangs etc)
anyway..my sister is at work(until 22:00pm) my brother is out with his mates and he will NOT take me.He laughs and teases when i need his help so i am not gonna make a fool outta my self again with him.I dont have a dad and my mom just goes to museums all weekends( i ususally go with her and now i am fed up of a museum on my plans,and that is IT)…
what can i do?i tried clubs(dancing,drama,and sailing) but ppl there take mates with them and they dont like anyone else joining in,i tried asking if they wanna hang and they cancel last minute etc.
i am tried of sitting in front of the computer or home alone while ppl are having fun.
plz dont suggest speaking to some1 bcoz i tried childline and they dont know how to help.And i dont have a counsellor in school to speak to.I am pretty shy but not super,so i can start conversations but somehow ppl end them.I get good grades so plz dont say study.i just wanna leave the house,but where to?
p.s this is me,is it bcoz of my looks?( i modeled a bit but now i just feel so down that i dont feel like life is worth it all so i cant see a point carrying on) there are 4 pictures i think…
http://s325.photobucket.com/albums/k390/mjasicka/?action=view¤t=GREENkoraletralala.jpg
thanks
what OMG is some1 usuing my images??? what??
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May 8th, 2009 at 6:37 pm
You're pretty enough. Why wouldnt anyone wanna be your friend?
May 8th, 2009 at 6:37 pm
I believe you should find a guy that you truly like and pursue him with all your heart.. that will give you a goal to go after. Your very pretty and should be able to find a guy that will support and love you forever.
May 8th, 2009 at 6:37 pm
Well you could join sports clubs or something like that.
A little advise even if you don't agree with the people around your school you should not alienate yourself from them. See their whole gangster thing is just for image purposes most of them are just normal people like you and once you get to know them and they feel comfortable around you they drop the gangster act.
I used to be in a gang myself when I was younger and I can tell you all that badass tough guy thing was all for show, among friends I was just me.
May 8th, 2009 at 6:37 pm
You need to explore your surroundings since you don't want to stay home. are there any activities you are interested in there? Since your mother travels and looks at museums, maybe she can take you places you would like to see. Are there any clubs in the area you would like to be a part of? Would you like to join a gym? Find out what activities you think you might like and then persue them.
May 8th, 2009 at 6:37 pm
Interesting - more than 1 yahoo id using same picture - which happens to be a pro shot for Clinique.
May 8th, 2009 at 6:37 pm
OMG PEDO BAIT
May 8th, 2009 at 6:37 pm
hey dont say your ugly or anything everyone is beatiful well as 4 your lonesum thing you should go and make friends ask people you know at skool to hang with you im more fortunite i have a sister 5 mins younger to hang with we are really bad tho it was hilarious when we hung out in the shops my sister grabbed tampons condoms and sum shit called horny goat weed and slid it under the ile it was hilarious
May 8th, 2009 at 6:37 pm
Perhaps you are talking too much about yourself, because that can be a turn-off for all kinds of people. It's hard at that age to be alone, you are used to being with people all the time and it's time for some independence, but how to do this when you don't have a buddy?
For one, I live in a city and state that if you weren't raised here, you're never really one of them, so I have found that all my friends are outsiders like me. So that's something you can look for, people with common backgrounds.
Try to look past the gangsta attire and see the people for who they are. That style will soon pass and people will be on to other trends.
If you are friendly to all types of people, you can have all types of friends. It takes time to grow friendships, don't be desperate, in fact don't initiate further contact unless they offer their phone number. It's more complicated now that your a teenager than it was when you were a child. Now you're dealing with certain social expectations, and maybe you haven't caught up with others your age. Go slowly. I saw your picture, you look cute, this is why I suspect it might be that you're too eager to make new friends and if something comes too easily to people, they don't want it. Make them work to be your friend. You're worth it! It is going to take more time, but aren't REAL friends worth waiting for?
In the meantime, I learned that I was never alone if I had a good book. Sometimes people ask about the book I have with me and that starts a conversation. If you have a dog, walk it. If you don't have one, see if you can walk a neighbor's dog, people always stop to meet people's dogs. Or wear or carry something interesting.
Good luck, I hope to hear that you're doing better soon. My heart goes out to you because I've been there. It won't last forever, I promise.